It only seems right on the 1st January to post a list of all the firsts that are expected to happen or I hope will happen this year. I'm really looking forward to checking back to this post on the 31st December to see how many came true! Although some are sure things!

My List of Firsts for 2013

1. My sister will have baby.
2. I will be an Auntie. (I actually have 3 beautiful nieces and a nephew on my husband's side but this will be the first time I will be called Auntie Lucy). Auntie Lu in fact.
3. We will leave both boys for the first time and fly to America.
4. The boys will see the old Pier at Clevedon and walk along the rocks on New Years Day.
5. My brother will own a house with a swimming pool. Jammie dodger!
6. An Easter egg hunt on a beach.
7. Our big boy Sammy will start Primary School.
8. Ollie will play in snow.
9. A family holiday in a hot sunny child friendly resort.
10. Ollie will speak.
11. Host a Doctors and Nurses party. (Children's I might add!) I've never seen this theme for children before!
12. Sammy will learn to ride a bike.
13. We keep our cars all year.
14. We make it down to Penzance to visit family and friends.
15. Host a dinner party in our new dining room.
16. I will bake a cake.
17. Sammy will start swimming lessons.
18. My Mum and I will host a baby shower.
19. One whole side of my family will be travelling on the other side of the world. (It makes me nervous.)
20. I shoot and print my first lomography film.
21. I get paid to photograph a wedding.
22. I will meet some incredible bloggers at my first blog conference.
23. I host a link party on my blog (and that someone joins in).

Happy New Year everyone. Our New Year's Eve didn't quite go to plan and at midnight I whispered Old Lang Syne, holding Sammy's hand as he dozed off between us. I will post some photos tomorrow, it's like a what could have been!

Is there anything you expect to do for the first time this year? I love ticking things off a list and hope I get to tick all 23 off for 2013!

What could be sweeter than a sugar glass rim for your cocktail glass on New Years Eve? I tried out a few and these are my favourites. Use dessert sauce or honey to ensure you get a good coating. I find lemon or lime juice isn't sticky enough for coarser toppings. Just need to settle on the cocktails themselves now!

One for the little ones before bed. Crushed Oreos in a freezer bag. Slice open the freezer bag with scissors and use the open bag as your plate to dip your glass. I used toffee sauce as a sticky base for the cookie crumble mix.

Next I tried these sweet treats. The rock candy on sticks is to use as a garnish! I have seen some great photos of crushed candy canes and hundreds and thousands glass rims. Might have to give those a go for a children's party!

The silver balls were too heavy to stick to the edge but if you drop them in just before serving the silver coating slides off and gives the effect of floating sparkle!

The pink glitter sugar is more delicate and lends itself to a lighter cocktail. I'm thinking vodka, pomegranate juice and cava.

The blue sugar in the chunkier glass makes me think of the Caribbean (who knows why!) so I have in mind mixing the cava with a coconut liquor or white rum and a heavier juice like mango.

I tried a classic mix of nutmeg and brown sugar which will suit a brandy and cava cocktail. Leave a whole sugar lump in the bottom of the glass before pouring.

I'm still deciding on the final mixes!

The trouble with cocktails is they can seem an expensive way to serve drinks. However, one trip to Ikea for a new playmobil play table for Ollie's bedroom and we were sorted! A selection of schnapps with curious flavours including dill and lemon, elderberry, anise and fennel and St John's Wort.

We have also been 'marinating' a bottle of dark rum with cinnamon sticks, vanilla pods and coffee beans for an infused spiced rum. My good friend had the same idea and gave sweet favours as Christmas gifts - mini bottles of clementine and vanilla infused vodka! We will be road testing them tomorrow night!

I also picked up a couple of bottles of sparkling non alcoholic pear and apple and lingon berry juice which will make great cocktail bases when we get sick of cava (although I adore cava so I doubt it!).

On the way to the travelator (doesn't that make you think of the British 90's show Gladiators?) I spied individual boxes of juice which are the perfect size to make a few cocktails. I chose elderberry and lingon, which I am going to mix with cava and the blackcurrant schnapps.

Have you got a favourite cocktail? I love a rum punch, fruity and punchy with a splash of angostura bitters. Yum!

Inspired by a blog I adore reading here are my 4 Simple Goals for 2013.

ONE - Read my camera manual. The simplest of all right?! I know the only way I will become a better photographer is to fully understand my camera! It's too easy to think I can learn just by practising alone. You can of course, but nothing beats understanding how your camera can help you along the way!

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TWO - Document memories for Ollie. When Sammy was born I lovingly and religiously filled in not one, not two but three baby journals and a Mother and Toddler Journal my husband bought me when I went back to work! Ridiculous as it sounds I adored them all and they all looked at his little milestones in a different way. Poor Ollie, the second son, has the same three journals stacked in the top of his wardrobe with almost nothing written inside! My Mum kept three padded baby record books when we were born and a little less was filled in each time! But I love looking through them. We do so much, I just need to write it down!

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THREE - Print more! I love instant camera photos because you get to display them straight away! My husband scans them in his Doxie so we have them forever but I need to take advantage of all the 50 prints for so much emails I get from the likes of Photobox. I have a confession I still l have over 1000 photos I printed from when Ollie was a baby that are in a tin rather than an album!

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FOUR - Less screen time. Have you thought about your eye to screen time? I use my iPhone as my alarm clock (although the boys are always awake before any alarm) and then it is so tempting to have a quick check on Twitter or Facebook. Over Christmas I had a little break from blogging which gave me some precious time away from the laptop. I feel refreshed and bursting with ideas. Sometimes a break is what you need to re focus. Plus you have to be brave to take a break. People won't stop reading just because you need a time out for a few days!

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Last January we went for a drink in our local pub and wrote this list. Some won't roll onto this years list like adding to our kitchen but others like updating the big frames up the stairs, I am determined to tick off in January! We also have lots of breaks with our friends and family but I would love a little holiday just the four of us before Sammy starts school in September! Yikes!

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And when it comes to a reward to reaching my goals - well they are rewards in themselves. I'll have beautiful journals to pass down to Ollie, albums of photos to pour over on wet Sundays and more quality time with my darlings which I will be better able to capture on the camera!

Have you set any goals for next year? If you have good luck!

ps. I was too embarrassed by one of my goals to blog it so boldly but I have never baked a cake. Not even a fairy cake. Shocking!  I will bake and ice a beauty in 2013!