I love my two beautiful boys absolutely equally. But in different ways if that makes any sense at all?! Big boy will always be my first, my original baby, as I call him.

Small boy will always be my last, (if my husband gets his way) my mama's boy who already I can see, will be the sensitive type compared with his extrovert brother.

I chose this picture because it's almost 9pm and I am sailing a bit too close to the wind, on today's photo a day May from Fat Mum Slim.

It is on our pin board in the kitchen and I just love it.

Our big cheeks, like two hamsters puckering up!

It doesn't mean I love him more because I chose a picture of big boy! Honest!

Last summer, big boy's fort had a sparkly new union jack, flying proudly from the chimney. This summer, it looks battered and bruised from the wild winds of Weston super Mare!

In fact, it is actually only half a flag now!

However, all the cars that pass down the lane next to our house, can see this house is flying the flag!

Day 15 of the Snap Happy BritMums challenge!

Suddenly my proper work, as I call it, has tripled in volume! I have plans coming out of my ears to cost up and board reports to write.

I work as a consultant for a large Housing Association group, in their management and maintenance of open spaces division. I love my job but this week we have a few deadlines to meet and whilst I know I work best under pressure, (think up til 5am the night before your coursework had to be handed in) that feeling of trying to keep all the plates spinning is an uncomfortable one.

So my Mama's Monday Must Do today for this week is work like a trojan and clear off as many tasks as I can!

I shall mostly be singing this week... working 9-5 what a way to make a living......!

Oh and trying not to be so terribly distracted by twitter!